The blue-eyed grandmother of the Afghans still finds ways to help after 30 years

By Fariba Nawa November 30, 2000 Pacific News Service Peshawar, Pakistan -- With her soft silver hair in a bun and round glasses magnifying her clear blue eyes, Nancy Hatch Dupree looks like the idealized image of an American grandmother. But don't expect Dupree, 73, to offer fresh-baked cookies. She's too busy being the Grandmother